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Spirit-Filled Marriage Coaching & Counseling

God Designed Marriage.

God Designed Restoration.

Established Family coaching and counseling is one of the fastest growing spirit-filled organizations for marriages in need of growth, breakthrough, healing, or restoration.

Breakthrough Session

Individual or Couples sessions for healing and counsel.

In-Person Intensives

1-3 Day Intensives local to us or you, designed for urgent change.

4-8 Week Programs

Marriage coaching and counsel designed to go deeper than breakthrough.

Pre-Marital *Soon*

Coaching and counsel before you walk into your vow of consecration.

Marriage the way God designed it.

Marriage is a covenant, not a contract. We provide accessible, Biblical and Spirit-filled marriage counseling, coaching, training and education for today’s marriages.

Coaching

Personalized, Spirit-led guidance for individuals, couples, and families seeking healing, breakthrough, and transformation.

Network

Biblical teaching, tools, and resources to help you grow in spiritual maturity and apply God’s truth to every area of life.

Giving

Partner with us to impact families. Your giving helps bring restoration, deliverance, and discipleship to homes in need.

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70,000+ people have taken the challenge (yes, we counted and verified)! God is moving, speaking and working miracles in the hearts of tens of thousands of spouses and marriages. We pray that yours is the next!

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SPIRIT FILLED

COACHING

Explore Marriage Coaching Services
Before Established

Confused, angry, frustrated, abandoned, betrayed, vengeful, resentful, chaotic, cycling, co-dependent, out-of-order, isolated, spiritually blind.

With Established

Clear, sober-minded, hopeful, restored, understanding, confident, prayerful, sharpened, refined, equipped, growing, healing, maturing.

Established Family Coaching

For Individual Spouses

Navigating marriage struggles alone can feel overwhelming, but restoration starts with you. This coaching helps you break free from spiritual strongholds, heal emotional wounds, and gain clarity in your next steps. Discover how to stand in faith, overcome unhealthy patterns, and realign with God’s design for marriage.

Find hope and wisdom through biblical principles, strategic coaching, and practical application. Whether you are seeking healing, standing for restoration, or discerning God’s direction, you will be equipped with the tools to move forward with confidence and peace.

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Spiritual Alignment
  • Deepen faith foundation
  • Break spiritual strongholds
  • Renew your mind
  • Overcome generational patterns
  • Strengthen discernment
Marriage Restoration
  • Understand God’s design
  • Shift unhealthy patterns
  • Navigate separation wisely
  • Rebuild trust biblically
  • Break unhealthy cycles
Emotional Healing
  • Heal from betrayal
  • Overcome fear & anxiety
  • Release resentment
  • Restore self-worth
  • Rebuild identity in Christ
Practical Guidance
  • Strategic communication tools
  • Healthy boundaries & respect
  • Praying for your spouse
  • Discerning reconciliation steps
  • Standing with wisdom
Established Family Coaching

For Couples Together

Marriage isn’t just about staying together—it’s about growing together. If you and your spouse are struggling with communication, trust, or unity, this coaching will help you break destructive cycles and build a strong, Christ-centered foundation. Gain clarity, deepen intimacy, and restore alignment in your relationship.

Through biblical truth, targeted strategies, and Spirit-led guidance, you will learn how to navigate conflict, strengthen connection, and rebuild trust. No matter where you are in your journey, transformation is possible when both hearts are willing to align with God.

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Spiritual Foundation
  • God-centered marriage vision
  • Break generational cycles
  • Pray together effectively
  • Establish spiritual leadership
  • Remove spiritual blockages
Healing & Restoration
  • Forgive & rebuild trust
  • Overcome past betrayals
  • Address unspoken hurts
  • Restore intimacy biblically
  • Strengthen marital unity
Communication & Connection
  • Speaking with understanding
  • Heal past misunderstandings
  • Navigate difficult conversations
  • Eliminate destructive cycles
  • Build emotional intimacy
Practical Strategies
  • Daily habits for connection
  • Conflict resolution skills
  • Roles & responsibilities clarity
  • Navigating blended families
  • Financial unity & stewardship
Established Family Coaching

1-3 Day In-Person Intensives

Some breakthroughs require more than just prayer—they require action. Our in-person intensives provide an immersive experience designed for deep healing, deliverance, and marital restoration. Walk through personalized coaching, live prayer, and hands-on exercises to break cycles and restore unity.

This is for individuals or couples seeking accelerated transformation. Through deep biblical insight, prophetic wisdom, and practical application, you’ll gain clarity, healing, and breakthrough in a powerful, life-changing way.

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Healing & Deliverance
  • Identify hidden strongholds
  • Renounce spiritual oppression
  • Walk in true freedom
  • Break ungodly soul ties
  • Establish kingdom authority
Marriage Breakthrough
  • Disrupt toxic patterns
  • Realign with God’s order
  • Heal relational wounds
  • Create new marital vision
  • Restore spiritual intimacy
Inner Healing
  • Release deep-rooted pain
  • Heal from rejection
  • Break trauma cycles
  • Overcome spiritual weariness
  • Restore emotional stability
Tactical Application
  • Live coaching & activation
  • Personalized breakthrough plan
  • Strategic next steps
  • Marriage-building exercises
  • On-site prayer & intercession
Established Family Coaching

For Premarital Couples

Marriage is more than a commitment—it’s a covenant. Preparing for a godly marriage starts with the right foundation. This coaching equips engaged or seriously dating couples with biblical wisdom, communication strategies, and practical tools to build a marriage that lasts.

Learn how to navigate differences, set healthy expectations, and cultivate a Christ-centered relationship. Avoid common pitfalls and enter marriage with clarity, purpose, and the confidence that you are walking in alignment with God’s design.

*Coming Soon*
Biblical Marriage Blueprint
  • Understanding covenant marriage
  • God’s roles for husband & wife
  • Building spiritual intimacy
  • Align with kingdom purpose
  • Establish healthy expectations
Marriage Readiness
  • Overcome past baggage
  • Address family & in-law dynamics
  • Financial stewardship principles
  • Establish household leadership
  • Build a shared vision
Communication & Connection
  • Master conflict resolution
  • Strengthen emotional connection
  • Navigate differences biblically
  • Develop trust & transparency
  • Break unhealthy patterns
Practical Preparation
  • Decision-making alignment
  • Daily habits for unity
  • Preparing for spiritual warfare
  • Maintaining healthy boundaries
  • Crafting a Christ-centered future

Step 1: Book Your Call

Step 2: Meet With Your Coach

Step 3: Follow Your Map of Transformation

Whether you book one session or multiple, you won’t leave guessing what to do next. You’ll walk away with a personalized Map of Transformation—giving you clear steps to continue the work, break cycles, and grow in spiritual maturity long after the session ends.

Step 4: Keep Walking in Truth

Our Coaching Approach

If we JUST focus on "frameworks"...

If we JUST focus on frameworks, accountability, and behavior modification, we risk reducing the process to mere checklists and routines. This can lead to a legalistic approach where the heart and deeper motivations are neglected, and the emphasis is on whether the “box is checked” rather than true transformation.

If we JUST focus on "our past"...

If we JUST focus on the past, such as childhood and history, we may overlook the present work of God and His plans for the future. This narrow focus can trap people in a cycle of revisiting old wounds without moving forward, leading to stagnation and apathy.

If we JUST focus on "spiritual encounters"...

If we JUST focus on seeking spiritual encounters, such as deliverance, healing or breakthrough, we may use these as a crutch, shifting blame to external forces like the devil while neglecting the need for personal responsibility, character development, and the building of a strong moral foundation.

Coaching Payment Options

Breakthrough

$ 197

Breakthrough Session
  • Situation Summary
  • 60 Minute Session
  • 25+ Page Map of Transformation
  • Priority Scheduling Access
  • Off Session Communication
  • Marriage Revival Hub Lifetime Seat
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4-Week Reset

$ 897

Full Program
  • Situation Summary
  • 60 Minute Session
  • 25+ Page Map of Transformation
  • Priority Scheduling Access
  • Off Session Communication
  • Marriage Revival Hub Lifetime Seat
Register for 4-Weeks

8-Week MomentumBest Value

$ 1,497

Full Program
  • Situation Summary
  • 60 Minute Session
  • 25+ Page Map of Transformation
  • Priority Scheduling Access
  • Off Session Communication
  • Marriage Revival Hub Lifetime Seat
  • Loyalty Future-Session Discounts
Register for 8-Weeks

Are there more plans?

Yes—additional coaching and intensive options are available.
Reach out to us directly at team@establishedfamily.com.

Plan Discounts

We offer flexible payment plans through Afterpay & Klarna.
Choose your terms at checkout using their secure portals.

This dredged up resentment I have had towards my family for continually partnering with their dysfunction. So many years of Christians wearing the title but constantly gripped by addictions, infidelity, divorce, and lives stolen—and no one was willing to address the issue or call it out and demand change. I also was able to address unforgiveness towards my stepmom for years of neglect. That will be a continual process of choosing to forgive because those wounds are still fresh. A couple things I noticed in my time of prayer—it seemed to be easier to forgive my spouse than it was to forgive my family. Also, my dad has never functioned in the role of “spiritual authority.” Although Scripture says he should have been mine growing up, I never saw him through that lens. So, looking at him through that lens of what he should have been was different.

Client + Community Member

So powerful, exactly what I needed to hear and pray. Double-mindedness is the key to what needed to be renounced and all its manifestations. God had revealed that fear and avoidance plagued our marriage, and I knew we needed to be delivered from double-mindedness, but the Lord just revealed it on a whole other level in such depth (as you said it would, Derek). It is truly being delivered from the spirit of double-mindedness, and this is what has caused the brokenness and all that has manifested in our marriage where I may have been looking at other areas before. So I renounce double-mindedness and all its manifestations in me, my husband *****, our marriage and family, and declare single-minded souls in us to rise up and come into complete alignment and order with God in our lives and marriage. I claim this done in the Blood of Jesus Christ for each one of us in this community. Thank you, Lord. Amen!

Client + Community Member

I was about to give up. My heart was swelling with resentment. Then the Lord sent you guys (again). I surrendered and prayed with a sincere heart, and I am here to tell you that for the first time in MONTHS, my husband and I spoke—and not only spoke but chatted and laughed. The enemyt was filling the space with blame, resentment and "conditions" but the Lord helped us. God is so kind! Thanks for being obedient!

Client + Community Member

I had never went through so extensively and forgave MYSELF like that. I kid you not, I could physically feel myself becoming more whole again. Idk how to explain it. It was like eating a super nourishing meal when you have been severally malnourished. I was like a ballon that was deflated but with each forgiveness I was being re-inflated. I literally felt this. The ache I was feeling left my body. I felt like I was being restored...praise God!

Client + Community Member

Thank you so much Derek and Jordan! Grateful for an opportunity to contend for my marriage in a deeper way! Believing for sudden breakthrough for my marriage and everyone else here!

Client + Community Member

Thank you for the scriptural foundation and your pastoral heart. I am so grateful to Jesus for connecting me to this ministry.

Client + Community Member

Thank you Jesus for meeting us all where we are. I definitely felt the Holy Spirit multiple times through the building ourselves up and starting prayer. For me the father wound resonated. And it's hard to face but I thank God for freedom, that he came to set us all free.

Client + Community Member

So great to be reminded that every fortress can be demolished in Jesus Name and that they Blood of Jesus Christ is more powerful than any stronghold and we have the authority in Jesus Name as sons and daughters to declare this over each of us, our spouses, marriages and family. So I stand in agreement claiming an declaring this done in the Blood of Jesus Christ...Amen!

Client + Community Member

Before listening to Established Family I knew that I needed to fix things with myself but I also felt like I could help my husband out too (he is the one who left and wants a divorce) after listening, it has opened my eyes and heart that I really need to focus on myself, give myself up to God... have him fight this battle and also help me.

Client + Community Member
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